My name is Bree Chojnicki. I’m from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania.

One day I woke up and said I’m done, I've had enough. I felt like I was lost and now I’m beginning to find myself again. I’m a beautiful person with a lot of disaster due to past events in my life. It all started when I was seven years old and my father passed away from cancer. It was hard to trust people and get close to someone because I always thought they would leave and never come back. In 2017 I thought I met the love of my life and thought for sure I would be with him for the rest of my life. I was wrong. Things were perfect at the beginning. A year after we were together things started to change for the worst. The mental and emotional abuse started. He started to lie about going to work, who he talked and would hang out with. Then flirting with other girls had started. He called me hurtful, put me down, told me I would never be good enough. No one wants me he would tell me and he said he was only with me because he felt bad. Throw his past girls in my face. This would last a couple of days. He would apologize to me and tell me he loves me. Of course I would take him back like and idiot. We would do stuff together and he would tell me how much fun he would have if he was with someone else. A year and half later the mental and emotional abuse got worst. He threw a bowl at the wall one day cause he was mad. A friend of his would tell me he was just using me and didn’t want to be with me. When I would ask him about it he said it wasn’t true. I would've never believed it until now. We finally broke up in January of 2019. 6 months after the break up, he would blow up my phone telling me how he missed me and loved me. I ran back to him and we started to talk again. We kept going back and forth for almost a year. Then the mind games started, one minute he wanted to be with me and one minute he didn’t. I finally realized things would never change.. I’m done being hurt everyday of my life. I’m not going to lie, I will always have some kind of love for him.

My life has been better since I finally let him go for good. I’m finally happy with myself again. I will never let anyone ever make me feel like I’m worthless again. You gotta take one day at a time. What doesn’t kill you make you stronger. I would have to say the FEARLESSLY AUTHENTIC line would have to be my favorite because it mixes all the other lines together into one. I believe each of the different lines I can relate to one way or another.

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March 26, 2021