Cycle Breaker in Progress: Shannon’s Ongoing Journey

What Makes You a Beautiful Disaster?

Going through so much darkness to find the rainbow and sunshine I deserve.

Why Do You Identify with the Beautiful Disaster Brand?

I can resonate with every BD theme. Each one holds a spot in my heart.

Tell Us Your Beautiful Disaster Story:

This is my second story, because the story doesn't end.

I’ve had a lot of trauma since I was little—being molested, having undiagnosed ADHD, and being treated by teachers like I was lazy and dumb. I used my body as a tool for bad relationships. I’ve degraded myself in so many ways and for so long—not knowing my worth.

I’ve continued on with a new therapist (always find the right one!), and the more I grow, the more I realize that the people closest to me are unhealthy. They don’t support me, they intentionally trigger me, and they don’t care how it hurts. I can see the patterns now—but it’s up to me to close those chapters and end those relationships, even if it’s family. Because nobody should hurt anyone intentionally.

I want my effort and love matched. I don’t want to be shunned for growing.

What Happened for You to Turn It Around?

Lots of therapy with a wonderful CBT therapist. Setting boundaries—and following through with them.

Name 3 Things You’ve Done to Move Closer to Happiness:

• I learned to set boundaries

• Working on myself

• Advocating for my mental and physical health

What Is Your Favorite Beautiful Disaster Collection, Past or Present, and Why?

Cycle Breaker!!! 100%